Moving a parent with dementia to assisted living is a significant decision, and it can be filled with emotional and practical challenges. There isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer to moving a parent with dementia into assisted living because it’s a unique journey for each senior and their family.
One crucial thing to consider is that assisted living may only be a temporary solution because dementia typically requires more intensive care as the condition progresses. So, factoring the availability of memory care services into the decision is important. Fortunately, some communities offer assisted living and memory care services that can make this transition more seamless.
Understanding the Decision
Deciding to move a parent with dementia to assisted living can be an emotional decision. It’s essential to recognize that these emotions are normal and shared by many families, and support is available to make the journey a positive one that helps your loved one retain their dignity through every season of life.
The Importance of Planning
Planning can make this transition less stressful. Consider the timing, your parent’s needs, and the resources available. Early planning ensures ample time to research, visit communities, and prepare everyone involved in the decision.
An important thing to remember is that you don’t go through this process alone. Seek advice from healthcare professionals, social workers, and support groups. They can provide valuable insights and emotional support.
Finding the Right Community
Finding the right senior living community for your parent is one of the most important factors to consider along the way.
Specialized Care Options & Safety
Safety is paramount when choosing an assisted living community for a parent with dementia. Look for communities with secure environments, emergency response systems, and trained staff who can handle dementia-related behaviors.
And remember that not all assisted living communities offer memory care. So, ensure the chosen community has programs and activities designed to support cognitive function and assist residents with dementia-related needs. Because assisted living simply won’t be an option in many cases for those with advancing dementia.
Preparing for the Move
How one prepares for this move is another unique factor for each family. But there are a few things to keep in mind that can help create a smoother transition.
Preparing Your Parent & Family
Start conversations early and involve your parent as much as possible. Explain the benefits and try to ease their concerns. Familiarize them with the new environment through visits, photos, and brochures.
Also, communicate openly with family members. Everyone should be on the same page regarding the move. Assign roles and tasks to make the transition smoother.
Preparing the Home
Declutter your parent’s current home and help them pack essentials. Create a checklist of items your loved one will need. Include familiar objects that can make the new place feel like home.
Making the Move
Choose a date that minimizes stress. For example, avoid major holidays or family events. You can help ensure there is ample time to manage the logistics preparing for the move early. Hire professional movers if possible. They can handle the heavy lifting, allowing you to focus on your parent. Medical records and medications are another important factor to consider during the move.
Adjusting to Assisted Living
Every individual will have a different experience adjusting. Approach this adjustment period with care and empathy, helping your parent however possible.
Easing the Adjustment Period
Adjustment takes time. Be patient and offer emotional support to your parent. Visit regularly and encourage participation in community activities. And support them in making friends and engaging in social activities.
Creating a familiar routine is another way to encourage your parent to adjust to their new living environment and help facilitate a smooth transition. A routine can provide a sense of stability. Support them in making friends and engaging in social activities.
Tips for the Family
Stay involved and communicate with community staff regularly. They can help you determine a suitable visitation schedule, which can be especially beneficial as dementia progresses. Attend family meetings and stay informed about your parent’s care plan. And don’t hesitate to seek support if you need it.
We’re Here to Support You & Your Family
Moving a parent with dementia to assisted living is often an essential step in many families’ lives. You can ensure a smoother transition by understanding the decision, finding the right community, preparing thoroughly, and providing continuous support.
Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and there are resources available to help you every step of the way. Consider reaching out to professionals who can assist you in making the best choices for your loved one with personalized guidance.
Our team of compassionate caregivers is happy to answer your questions and give you and your loved ones a community tour to see the support available at The Enclave of Springboro.
